Writer's Support Room - Open Forum Transcripts

Event start time: Tue Jun 29 14:13:26 2004
Event end time: Tue Jun 29 15:21:00 2004


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mel boring Join us this afternoon in the AUDITORIUM-Scheduled Events Room for an "Open Forum" with Web Editor Mel Boring. Mel has published some 25 magazine articles and stories, as well as eight books for the young readers market. He taught writing for 18 years, while being home husband and parent to two of his four children, and doing his own writing. He welcomes your questions on time management, getting started, writer's block, marketing, writing rights, writing earnings, or anything else you'd like to discuss. Bring your QUESTIONS to this open forum-in five minutes.
mel boring The Tuesday afternoon "Open Forum" will begin promptly at 4 Atlantic/CANADA, 3 p.m. Eastern, 2 p.m. Central, 1 p.m. Mountain, and noon Pacific. While you wait for the "Open Forum" to start, feel free to use your ASK A QUESTION button RIGHT BETWEEN THE YELLOW "MAP" AND THE RED QUESTION MARK IN ICHAT to post some questions for the discussion group-two minutes from now.
mel boring Good afternoon! Welcome to this Tuesday afternoon's "Open Forum" session. I'm your moderator, Mel Boring, and the Web Editor for this site. We're back for an informal time of answering any questions you might like to ask, on any subject. So feel free to ask what's on your mind--and I'll tell you what's on mine! First, please read these announcements, then we'll get started.
mel boring IMPORTANT INSTRUCTIONS: Send questions you'd like answered or discussed by using your "Ask a Question" icon/button. (It looks like a thought bubble icon, RIGHT NEXT TO THE RED QUESTION MARK.) The moderator (me, Mel Boring) will post the questions one at a time in the chat room and do my best to answer them. Also note: If you want to make it possible to ask the longest question you can, first type "/ask" (without the quotation marks), then leave one space after the end of "ask", then type as many characters of your question as you can. If your question is not complete, send the second part next, then if necessary the third, etc.
mel boring WARNING: If you don't post anything at all, SOME of you will be bounced off the system in 15 minutes. TO PREVENT THIS, type something (either a question to the moderator or even a private message) every 15 minutes to stay active and remain online.
mel boring Here's GOOD NEWS of what someone has been up to!...
mel boring GOOD NEWS from Hope Marston: We were over in the Adirondacks earlier this week to visit an outfitters store. I talked with the clerk and showed her my LITTLE BOOK COLLECTION. I left her ordering materials and a complimentary copy of the wolf book (her choice because the owner and his boys "love" wolves.) This outfitter has stores in three communities in the central Adirondacks.

mel boring Hope, we ALL HOPE with you that your LITTLE BOOK COLLECTION will be stocked way up there in the Adirondacks!
mel boring RV wants to know: What are a few of the right questions for a new author/ illustrator to ask?
mel boring Here is a pre-submitted question of interest to MANY....
mel boring First of all, a new author/illlustrator should ask: Am I going to be willing to stick with writing for SEVEN years?...
mel boring because that is the AVERAGE time it takes today to get a BOOK published....
mel boring In fact, I think it's MORE years nowadays myself, but seven is enough....
mel boring Secondly, a new writer/illustrator should ask if they are willing to submit their work to MAGAZINES first....
mel boring Because it's much EASIER to get stories, articles or illustrations published in magazines, RV....
mel boring Then the new author/illustrator should ask: Am I ready for "suggestive questions" from family and friends who don't think much of children's writing....
mel boring If you can answer all those questions affirmatively, RH, you'll be WELL on your way! And GOOD FORTUNE to you from all of us!
mel boring If any of you have things to suggest to RH to ask, message them to me and I'll share them!
gailmarina Is taking a writing course essential for success?
mel boring GOOD question, gailmarina. I never took a writing course when I began 35 years ago....
mel boring and I know people who are getting published THESE DAYS without a writer's course....
mel boring When I began in 1969, the Institute of Children's LIterature was JUST starting...
mel boring and I didn't hear about them, or I would've taken their course....
mel boring My feeling is that if you are starting out writing TODAY, gailmarina,...
mel boring taking a writer's course would be a GOOD idea, because...
mel boring our business is so much more competitive, and we need all the help we can get....
mel boring And a course WOULD HELP, I know, from having taught the ICL courses previously.
tkat_2 Mel, taking the ICL course and the one at Longridge was one of the best decisions I made on advice from one of the cofounders of my local creative writers group to " get something else" under your belt.
mel boring THANKS for your GOOD and timely advice, tkat_2!...
mel boring Is there a writer here today who has NOT taken a writer's course, and would like to share about this? Message it, and I'll pass it on.
ladyblf2001 I need help in time mangement. Hrs at work really hurt me
mel boring You are NOT alone, ladyblf2001, for we ALL need help in time management!...
mel boring To begin with, with an OUTside job, you should schedule just a HALF-HOUR to write per day....
mel boring Do ALL that you can in that half-hour....
mel boring Later, you increase it, by 5 or 10 minutes at a time, after you get that time spot established....
mel boring Still NOW, after writing for 35 years, I ALSO have trouble with time management....
mel boring Working at home, there are SO MANY distractions--good things you needa do! (-:}...
mel boring I recently moved my office UPstairs here, because it keeps me "above" all those things I'm aware of needing to do downstairs,...
mel boring like giving the dog a treatie weatie, checking on the cat's water, and so on....
mel boring So start SMALL, then when that SHORT time is secure, gradually increase it....
mel boring And, ladyblf2001, I ALWAYS want to know if advice works....
mel boring So will YOU please let us know in, say, two weeks, how it's working for you? THANKS!
mel boring I owe a big thanks to lizr from last week:
mel boring MANY THANKS to lizr for telling us this valuable news last week: Carolyn Yoder is the editor of a new imprint at Boyds Mills Press, Calkins Creek Books; it was started less than a year ago.
mel boring Carolyn Yoder's main interest is HISTORY, so I'm sure that's why they've established the Calkins Creek Books imprint. If now, and you know, would you let me know, please?
mel boring Here's so MORE GOOD advice on time management!...
tkat_2 my best advice on time management leave the television off :) It's worked for me so far.
george kulz Mel, I devote 1/2 hour a day to writing, and, if I do what I'm suppose to, I write anything and everything on my mind for that half hour and don't go back to correct, edit, fix, etc. I may do that after I've written everything I want to write on whatever topic I'm writing on, but not during development of an idea. Hope this helps someone who is having trouble managing their time.
mel boring GREAT advice, tkat_2 and george kulz--THANKS!
mbvoelker Distractions -- my kids are banging on my door every 2 minutes because one is packing for camp and the other is watching his little brother who is being difficult. LOL
mel boring YIKES! That IS a great barrier to writing, MB!...
mel boring Are YOU able to write in all that distraction? Let us know how YOU do it, please!
mel boring More from lizr about Calkins Creek...
lizr You're welcome, Mel More info about the imprint is in the current = July issue of ICL's Children's Writer
mel boring Thank YOU, lizr!
grandy1983 What can I do to make my middle-grade novel stand out from all the others in the slush pile? I have a good storyline, but how can I make an editor go, "WOW!" when she reads it? I am only finished with the first few chapters. Thanks, Mel.
mel boring It's ALL in the very first words, grandy1983....
mel boring That is, your first three pages, and consequently your first chapter MUST GRAB them....
mel boring Envision this: You're a NYC editor in your office; it's Friday about 4PM...
mel boring You're tired, plain worn out, perhaps a little bored....
mel boring Then imagine that editor opening up your manuscript....
mel boring You MUST grab them, and I follow the "Rule of THrees."...
mel boring You have, first, THREE SECONDS, to grab their attention....
mel boring So your title is crucial there....
mel boring then, if they stay with you, you have THREE MINUTES...
mel boring They will read for about three minutes from the beginning of your manuscript....
mel boring Go back and read your ms, starting at the start, and read for three minutes....
mel boring Then ask if there is anything in that first three minutes that will GRAB them....
mel boring Here's an example. I THINK in the first Harry Potter book,...
mel boring J.K. Rowling VERY QUICKLY gets to Harry being left on the porch....
mel boring THAT is a "grabby" opening. Editors (and readers) will think, "Left on the porch? What's gonna happen now?"...
mel boring and they will KEEP reading. DON'T be J.K. Rowling; be grandy1983; but GRAB the editor, and EARLY!
spotslover2 I just finished the magazine course, which was quite helpful
mel boring Thanks for letting us know, spotslover2!...
mel boring My opinion is that those courses give you the ONE BEST THING...
mel boring we all need to get started: A one-on-one relationship with a real person, a published author, and that is what you need to get published.
realityczech I read so much about writing daily when I started that I felt continually guilty for missing a day. Now I realize that I am someone who writes in large chunks, and then rests--like a python gorging on a pecary. I might not write for a week, then BAM, I complete 3 chapters in a weekend. Every writer needs to find his or her OWN rhythm.
mel boring Here's MB back with some good advice:...
mbvoelker Today I'm just doing forums so its not too bad. I try to keep a "no pestering the mom" time for a few hours each day while the little one naps and the big kids do quiet things. Does always work, but more often than not. :-)
mel boring How about putting a sign up that says: "Don't Pester Mom" while you're working, or "Don't Pester Pop"?
mel boring I think the trick is FINDING those LITTLE BITS of time--like during naps, AND using them, even if only FIVE minutes!
peanut Mel, I am a stay-at-home mom so I am home all the time, but writing time is still hard to come by, especially in summer with the kids home. I set time in the morning and in the evening to write every day. Any other time that can be added is a plus... I set my timer and write nonstop until it rings. The kids know that if my office door is closed, they can't bother me unless someone is bleeding or something...LOL
mel boring GOOD suggestions, peanut, THANKS! The TIMER is something I have used, too, and it WORKS!
realityczech My kids know that if they interrupt the python (ME) they might end up becoming the pecary! Ha Ha!
mel boring HA! LOVE THAT! realityczech, did you send me a larger message? I'm sorry, I seem to have seen it, but lost it. Could you resend, please?
mena I am finding i only have time to write when the pressure is
mel boring I'm going to guess at the rest of mena's question...
mel boring "I am finding I only have time to write when the pressure is on,"...
mel boring and it's TRUE that SOME people can ONLY write, or perform, when the pressure is ON.
loretta Last week someone asked about payment from Kid Zone. Who was it and did they ever get paid?
mel boring I don't remember who it was, loretta, but I'll ask if that person is here, would they respond to loretta's question?
lizr I'm in a quandry about a story I am working on -- I want to try my 'hand' at writing a story with the MC as an animal - a little bear- I know that we hear that most editors don't want anthropomorphic animal stories - but half of the new stories out each season are about animals. So, -- should I try it or just have the MC be a child?
mel boring NO, I would let it be a bear, lizr, I know you can do it!...
mel boring BUT remember the advice that BOTH Marileta Robinson and, I think, Cynthia Smith, gave us:...
mel boring DON'T just have "kids with fur."...
mel boring In other words, build animal characters that are truly ANIMALS, and not...
mel boring just "kids in disguise."...
mel boring What I think that means is that you should consciously put out of your mind...
mel boring trying to "show kids something" in using animals....
mel boring Let it be an ANIMAL under that fur, not a kid!
mel boring HM has this GOOD question: When we submit our manuscripts, are we supposed to single space or double space between sentences? (And who makes that decision anyway?)

mel boring Yes, HM, manuscript pages should be DOUBLE-spaced, and I once asked that question of an editor....
mel boring She looked at me with surprise and said,...
mel boring "It's just to make them easier to read."...
mel boring So the decision was made by editors who wanted manuscripts to be easier to read, HM.
mena is poetry.com a scam,i've entered many poems and they all
mel boring I don't have any experience with poetry.com, mena,...
mel boring but one of my students ONCE went through all the procedures there,...
mel boring and told me that SHE felt it was a scam,...
mel boring and the purpose of the scam (which is REALLY "dressed up in finery")...
mel boring is to sell YOU the book with your poem(s) in it....
mel boring I'm sorry to be the bearer of such BAD TIDINGS,...
mel boring but my OWN conclusion is that they are a scam....
mel boring I'll be GLAD to give equal time here to ANYone who has not felt they were a scam!
realityczech You posted the larger message, Mel. It had to do with my being a writer who writes in large chunks of time with days/weeks off in between rather than daily, like a python gorging on the pecary. I was saying that each writer has his own individual rythym that works, and it's okay if it is different from what the books tell us to do.
mel boring GOOD point, realityczech! THANKS for re-sending it....
mel boring The bottom line is that we ALL have different bodies, temperaments, likes, dislikes, etc,...
mel boring and OUR PARTICULAR writing schedule MUST BE fitted to that.
realityczech I think my kids are more accepting of my large blocks of time because they know I DON"T write every day
mel boring Here's some TIMELY advice from a writer at work, lisalisa:...
lisalisa Here might be a good time to plug my article on the ICL
lisalisa website. Under Writer's RX, Writer's Support, Schedule
lisalisa "The Stay-at-Home-Parent's Guide to Finding Time to Write."
lisalisa As we speak, I'm on this forum, putting together a booklet
lisalisa for my class reunion, trying to get my youngest down for a
lisalisa nap, and sometimes revising a story.
mel boring lisalisa, you are a person who can do so MANY things at one time....
mel boring And that leads me to say that it is WHEN I FORCE MYSELF to do many things at once, both mentally and physically, that I get the most writing done!
mbvoelker Doing a Google or Yahoo search on writing scams will bring up many sites for checking. My favorite is one called Writer Beware, which is associated with SFWA. Unfortunately, I can't give you the URL right now.
mel boring GOOD advice, use the search words "Writer Beware" to find that one--a GOOD one! I'll try to slip the URL of it into the transcript before I post it!
craig can instructors assist you with past assignments even after they have provided some information on it once before
mel boring Hi, craig! They can do it in a more limited way....
mel boring For instance, if you write an Assignment 3 or 4 that is submittable, and you submit it,...
mel boring you can come back and say later, "I submitted to X Magazine, do you have any other submission suggestion?"...
mel boring THey just can't give another full critique of it, craig.
mel boring MORE good stuff on time management!:...
tkat_2 I told my family that Tuesdays are forum days so they and my friends don't call me. If they do, I have a second line for them to leave a message.
mel boring What an imaginative thing you've done in doing that, tkat_2!
tkat_2 re: the Poetry.com scam youb are rightbecause a few of the publishing houses of those anthologies do the same thing like Poetry.com does. They lure you in with finery and scam you by making you pay for the extras.
mena where do i send poems to see if they can be published
mel boring mena, I would STUDY the few poems published in HIGHLIGHTS....
mel boring For example, there is always one inside the front cover....
mel boring And I would LEARN poety writing from those good examples, then write poetry, not identical to them, but as APPEALING as those poems are....
mel boring Then I would go thoroughly through the CHILDREN'S MAGAZINE MARKET, ...
mel boring or CHILDREN'S WRITERS AND ILLUSTRATOR'S MARKET,...
mel boring and PICK out the FEW magazines who list wanting poetry....
mel boring Then I would submit the poems I'd written with the HIGHLIGHTS poems as "teachers," to them, mena.
loretta Mel, I know you've spoken on this before, but for YA novel, first time, what should I shoot for
loretta is last weeks forum posted with the transcripts and if not will it be eventually?
mel boring Last week's Open Forum SHOULD be posted, loretta....
mel boring But it bears checking, and I'll do it when this one is over and I post it. THANKS for bringing it up, because I DO forget! I'll check on it.
mel boring FOr a first YA novel, I would shoot for no more than 15,000 words, or 20,000 at the most,....
mel boring if that was your question, loretta. But it's MOST important, at whatEVER word length, that you really pack something SPECIAL into the manuscript.
lisalisa In the same thread as craig's question, is it ever OK to ask
lisalisa your former instructor to critique something for you?
mel boring That would be a no-no, I'm afraid, lisalisa,...
mel boring and here is why. Your instructor's time is limited, so s/he is trying to hold within the schedule that the course sets up....
mel boring ANything EXTRA really pushes that schedule....
mel boring Here's a better suggestion: Ask your instructor if they know of a...
mel boring RELIABLE, REASONABLE critiquer who does that as a business....
mel boring And I think that MOST instructors would know of at least one.
realityczech I have a question about the copyright symbol. We've been told at forums to include it in order to protect our work, but I have read several writer's guides that claim putting the copyright symbol on your manuscript is the clear mark of an amateur. Mary at Longridge seemed to share this view. To copyright or not to copyright, that is the question...
mel boring I agree, realityczech, it does mark an amateur....
mel boring Here is why. NO respectable editor is EVER going to pilfer writing from anyone....
mel boring SO they take the copyright symbol as an offense....
mel boring After all, you haven't EVEN gotten it published yet, why are you worried about copyright?, they will wonder....
mel boring Books are CAREFULLY copyrighted in the AUTHOR'S name at the time of publication....
mel boring So you are ANTICIPATING the editor's job, and most of them would be at least mildly offended.
tkat_2 My main character has to travel back in time to find the missing pieces of her past. I know that "Slider's" has the remote control calculator and "Stargate SG1" has the gate, how can I make the trip more unique?
mel boring You DO need an object...
mel boring that CLEARLY shows the travel is launched, tkat_2....
mel boring Even C.S. Lewis had the wardrobe in which the kids traveled to another world...
mel boring in THE LION, THE WITCH AND THE WARDROBE....
mel boring It can be ANYthing, doesn't have to be a fancy remote control calculator....
mel boring For instance, with children of age 7-9, they could go under the table beneath the table cloth to time travel....
mel boring But yours will be more sophisticated, I think, tkat_2...
mel boring You could use a door, any gate, maybe a concealed pathway, a path into the dense forest,...
mel boring or ANYplace that DEFINITELY SHOWS "Now my character is traveling back or forward."
grandy1983 How can I realistically change my villain to become a better person and learn from his mistakes? For example, my villain had been deeply hurt by something that had happened to him, and he retaliated against the lady who was the cause of this. However, he feels very guilty at the end when the protagonist solves the urgent problem. What reasons would be good enough to justify his changing into a better person? I know most villains don't change, but because he is not truly evil, I felt I could have him turn out to be a good character.
mel boring Could the protagonist work WITH the villain, grandy1983?...
mel boring Maybe he would do it GRUDGINGLY,...
mel boring but the villain could realistically HAVE TO BE involved in the resolution....
mel boring Why don't you consider this, and let us know if it does or doesn't work?
craig I want to use assignment 2 for a contest I need more advice on it
mel boring That sounds like you need further critique on the story, craig, and that wouldn't be appropriate....
mel boring What would you think of this?...
mel boring Go to our Writer's Retreat, and ask for the advice?...
mel boring There are students and grads there who would be glad to advise.
realityczech Another tip to help kids understand the No Interruptions policy: SHOW THEM YOUR WORK. Once my kids started reading my writing, they were much better about respecting my time and space. I got my writing needs met and an audience for my work--bonus!
mel boring HA! Such a SIMPLE piece of advice, but SO workable and practical! THANKS, realityczech!
mel boring Friends, I'm going to have to stop on time because....
mel boring the "First Pass Pages" have JUST arrived via FEDEX for GUINEA PIG SCIENTISTS, and I MUST get them done by this Friday--an almost impossible task!...
mel boring THANKS for being here today, and I'll save the leftover questions to use in the Q&As on MOndays....
mel boring THIS Thursday evening, Karen Orfitelli will be our Chat Guest....
mel boring She is an expert BOTH writer and editor, with MUCH experience in both. See you then?...
mel boring Bye for now!

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